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| Hello Fiona |
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To everyone who's talked with me about temperament and/or taken the Keirsey Temperament Sorter - here it is!
Introducing: the first issue of A Taste of Temperament.
Many of you have told me in workshops, surveys and coaching conversations that you'd like to explore how to apply temperament theory but you just don't have the time to read the books or find articles on your own.
I'm making it easy for you. In this monthly eNewsletter you will receive:
- a short (true) story with tips illustrating how you can improve relationships and results with temperament awareness.
- links to expert articles, such as Dealing with Stress at Work
- and for fun, a quick, easy to make, delicious recipe that every temperament can enjoy.
If anything you read here sparks an idea or a question, I encourage you reply to this email. I'm here to help you and your team!
Fiona Prince
If you prefer not to receive this fr@e publication, simply click unsubscribe below. But you won't know what you're missing!
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| Getting Past Aaargh! |
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Danielle sat at her desk, her shoulders up to her ears, waiting for Reese's inevitable interruption.
She knew it was coming. Ever since she'd become the acting supervisor, it seemed Reese had been coming to her every ten minutes with another question or ... suggestion. Aaaargh!
A serious and quiet Guardian Inspector (ISTJ), Danielle needed a peaceful environment and lots of alone-time to focus. On top of her detail-oriented job, the new management responsibilities pushed her out of her comfort zone, and the interruptions just plain stressed her out.
Many Guardians instinctively time manage and create structure.
Danielle's natural route to less stress and more productivity was to designate times for specific activities. She implemented brief, morning, staff meetings to stay abreast of what everyone was working on, set interruption-free times to do detail-oriented tasks, and asked Reese to document his questions and suggestions so that they could discuss them at a specific time each day. Phew! She had a plan that worked for her.
Reese was still struggling. Having had limited training, he looked with dismay at the mountain of papers on his desk and empty data fields on his computer screen. And now he couldn`t ask any questions! How was he going to get through the work? Aaaaargh!
Reese called me in a state of frustration. His manager's new policies were making it harder for him to do his job and he couldn't see how they would make things better.
Many Rationals need to know why.
I let Reese know that, as a Rational Inventor (ENTP), his reaction to the changes was natural and that he was just being himself. Likewise, Danielle's policies were quite natural for Danielle.
Reese was able to accept the new policies when he understood that Guardians like Danielle need a schedule to do their best work. They need rules and procedures to be followed, and most important, they don’t work well with interruptions.
Reese just needed to figure out how to adjust his approach to getting the information he needed so they could both succeed.
He had thought that his new supervisor would want him to direct all questions to her. Once he stopped to understand what Danielle really needed and why she needed it, he was comfortable acting independently…in fact he preferred it.
Result? Danielle's and Reese's working relationship improved.
Reese dusted off the technical and procedural manuals, found answers to many of his questions and he soon became much more comfortable interacting with Danielle in the prescribed times.
At his performance review, Danielle commended him on his problem solving skills and contributions to streamlining processes. They even go out to lunch on occasion :)
If you're having trouble getting past Aaargh! Give me a call. Properly understanding people's temperaments can make it a lot easier for everyone to do their best work.
Disclaimer: Names, genders and occupations have been changed to protect the innocent...but the situation is real.
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| The Most Dangerous Chocolate Cake |
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This recipe is perfect for Artisans because Artisans like to live in the moment, try new things and get things done quickly. But anyone can enjoy this! (Thanks for sending it to me Mom.)
Why is this the Most Dangerous Chocolate Cake? Because now, you're only 5 minutes away from chocolate cake...anytime of day or night!
5 MINUTE CHOCOLATE MUG CAKE
- 4 tablespoons flour
- 4 tablespoons sugar
- 2 tablespoons cocoa
- 1 egg
- 3 tablespoons milk
- 3 tablespoons oil
- a small splash of vanilla extract
- 1 large coffee mug
Add dry ingredients to mug, and mix well. Add the egg and mix thoroughly. Pour in the milk and oil and mix well. Add vanilla extract and mix again.
Put your mug in the microwave and cook for 3 minutes at 1000 watts (high). The cake will rise over the top of the mug, but don't be alarmed! Allow it to cool a little, and tip out onto a plate if desired. |
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