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The Hustle Contract
by Rob Potts


“And fathers, don’t stir up anger in your children, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.” - Ephesians 6:4


My daughter likely receives more scrutiny playing sports than some other children do. As a parent, I tried to motivate her to be more aggressive and to play harder and use many tactics to do so. I tried having heart-to-heart conversations and even tried bribing her with a steak and shrimp dinner. I thought I had tried everything, but then I came up with another great idea. I would put her on a “Hustle Contract.”

The purpose of the Hustle Contract was to set some expectations for her effort. In my heart, I knew God was saying that He had a different, better way to do this. But I didn’t listen. I went ahead with the Hustle Contract anyway. I read through it with her in its entirety and had her sign it. At first she thought it was a joke, but when she discovered that I was serious, she just dropped her head. A look of sadness came over her face. She looked defeated. Before I went to bed that evening, I prayed about it. That was when I realized that I was putting unreasonable pressure on my daughter. Despite my attempt at clever wording, the message in the contract was that my love for her was somehow tied to her performance on the soccer field.

The next morning I immediately went into her room carrying the signed Hustle Contract. I sat down on her bed and confessed. “I was wrong,” I said. “I thought the Hustle Contract was a great idea, but it was a dumb idea. It was my idea, not God’s. I try to be the best parent I can, but I still make mistakes all the time. The good news is that God still loves me, and He loves you too. He loves us even when we make mistakes. You don’t need to focus on anything other than your relationship with Jesus. If you do that, He will help you with the rest of it.”

After our talk, I handed the Hustle Contract to her and told her to tear it up. When I said this, the biggest grin grew and stretched across her face. Her eyes twinkled with joy. I could see the weight lifting off her shoulders. It was such a privilege to have this conversation with my daughter. I thank God for teaching me about grace, and I’m humbled that He chose me to be her dad.

Today, may we all understand that God loves us no matter what we do or don’t accomplish on the field. Yes, we should compete with excellence, but we must always remember that our performance doesn’t earn His love. He already loves us simply because He created us.


1. If you are a parent, how can you encourage your child's relationship with the Lord? Coaches, how can you encourage your athletes’ faith? Athletes, how can you encourage the faith of your teammates?

2. How can you view your role as parent, coach or teammate through God's eyes?

3. How can we best deliver the message of high expectations for performance with the underlying theme of grace?

Prayer Requests

* Pray for college students to sign up to be huddle leaders at Pella Sports Camp.

* Pray for recruitment of student leaders to attend Leadership Camp in Minnesota in July.

* Pray that we can make a connection with the new Drake Men's Basketball Coach.

Pray for a Drake Athlete who had surgery on April 5th that it will be a quick recovery.

* Pray for junior high and senior high students to rise up and be on the FCA leadership team at their school

* Pray for a Huddle Coach's daughter who is going to China to do mission work. Pray for her safety.

* Pray for volunteer recruitment as we need leaders to rise up to be Chaplains and Huddle Coaches. 


Central Iowa
FCA Banquet

April 23, 2017
Airport Holiday Inn
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Featured Speaker: 
Matt Campbell,
ISU Football Coach

Pella Sports Camp
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July 10-14, 2017

Sports offered:

Boys:  Baseball, Basketball, Cross Country, Football, Golf, Soccer, Track & Field, Tennis

Girls:  Basketball, Cross Country, Golf, Soccer, Track & Field, Tennis, Volleyball

"I will know that you are standing together with one spirit and one purpose, fighting together for the faith which is the Good News." Philippians 1:27

2017 Camp Logo - white smallFCA Leadership Camp
July 28-30, 2017
Grades 10-12
University of Northwestern, St. Paul
Transportation provided.

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